South London Men's Group
South London Men's Group
The room where you don't need to perform
The room where you don't need to perform
Wednesday @7pm-9.30pm
East Dulwich, London
Wednesday @7pm-9.30pm
East Dulwich, London
Est 2024
Est 2024
South London Men's Group
South London Men's Group
The room where you don't need to perform
The room where you don't need to perform
Wednesday @7pm-9.30pm
East Dulwich, London
Wednesday @7pm-9.30pm
East Dulwich, London
Est 2024
Est 2024
What happens?
What happens?
Men sit in a room together and talk honestly. That’s it. No scripts. No fixing each other. No pretending everything’s fine.
Some weeks you’ll be challenged. Some weeks you’ll do the challenging. You’ll hear things that stay with you and say things you’ve been sitting on for months.
It’s a room where men develop — not by following a programme, but by being honest with each other.
Who is this for?
Who is this for?
100+
You don’t need to be in crisis. You don’t need to have “a problem.” You just need to have noticed that something’s missing — and that another night out isn’t going to fix it.
Most men don’t have a single person they can talk to honestly. Not their mates. Not their partner. Not because those people don’t care — but because somewhere along the way, the habit of keeping it together became their way of being.
This group is for the man that wants something different for themselves.
You don’t need to be in crisis. You don’t need to have “a problem.” You just need to have noticed that something’s missing — and that another night out isn’t going to fix it.
Most men don’t have a single person they can talk to honestly. Not their mates. Not their partner. Not because those people don’t care — but because somewhere along the way, the habit of keeping it together became the whole identity.
This group is for man that want something different for themselves.
Speakers
8HR
Workshops
Who is this for?
You don’t need to be in crisis. You don’t need to have “a problem.” You just need to have noticed that something’s missing — and that another night out isn’t going to fix it.
Most men don’t have a single person they can talk to honestly. Not their mates. Not their partner. Not because those people don’t care — but because somewhere along the way, the habit of keeping it together became their way of being.
This group is for the man that wants something different for themselves.
"It's the type of investment in yourself that you wish you did ten years ago"
-Brett-
"It's the type of investment in yourself that you wish you did ten years ago"
-Brett-
"It's the type of investment in yourself that you wish you did ten years ago"
-Brett-
Not done anything like this before?
Good. Most men haven’t. And most men feel exactly the way you’re feeling right now before they walk through the door.
The evening runs for 2.5hrs. There’s a simple loose framework — an opening, a chance to speak, a chance to listen, and a close. No one is put on the spot. You share what you want to share. Nothing more.
You can come along and just listen for the whole evening. No pressure to contribute. You’re welcome exactly as you are.
By the end of the evening, most men say the same thing: “I wish I’d done this sooner.”
Speakers
8HR
Workshops
What changes?
100+
Men who’ve been coming for a few months say the same things.
They’re much more present. They’ve got friendships that are actually honest. They’re not carrying everything alone anymore — and the people around them can feel the difference.
None of that comes from a workbook or a technique. It comes from sitting in a room with other men and being honest about what's actually going on.
Speakers
8HR
Workshops
What you will get?
Honesty without consequnece
Most men edit themselves everywhere — at work, at home, with mates. This is a room where you can say what's actually going on without it being used against you, fixed, or repeated.
Men who actually know you
Not the version of you that shows up at the pub. Not the one that performs at work. The men in this room will know what you're dealing with — and that changes what friendship feels like.
A framework that does the work for you
You don't need to know what to say or how to start. The evening has a shape — an opening, a space to speak, a space to listen, and a close. You just show up.
Something that stays when you leave
This isn't 2.5 hours that evaporates by the time you get home. Men consistently say the conversations in this room change how they show up for days and weeks. And regular attendance brings longer term benefits.
Who runs it ?
Richard grew up on a council estate without much money. He went on to spend over five years in law at the Law Society and fifteen years in investment banking — Goldman Sachs, Barclays, Bank of America. He's a husband, a dad to two young kids, and the owner of a dog called Bella who has no respect for personal boundaries.
But he wasn't showing up at home the way he wanted to. So he spent the last decade doing something about it — honestly, uncomfortably, and without shortcuts. He trained as a certified coach and shadow work facilitator, runs retreats, has hosted over 600 men's group gatherings and works with men one to one who want to go further — helping them get brutally honest about what's not working and then actually working with them to change it.
He started this group because nothing like it existed in South London — and he believes rooms like these matter, and more men should have access one.
He co-facilitates these gatherings with other experienced men who are seasoned in working with men.
What do men say?
"Fantastic"
"The best thing I think I've ever done"
"A better father because of it"
"Something just clicked"
How can I join the South London Men's Group
Join via our website by filling out the form to register your interest in our next free taster session.
Are there any membership fees?
The first taster session is free. Afterwards if you want to come back we have a small monthly contribution to meet our running costs and to help us reach those men that would benefit. We offer a reduced contribution for those men that need financial assistance.
What are the main goals of the group?
We are a community of men that support and encourage each other to become the man we want to be.
We do this by creating a space that is confidential and free of competition and judgement so that men can grow and develop.
Do I have to talk?
No. You can listen the whole evening. Most men find that once they’re in the room, they want to.
Is this therapy
No. It’s men talking honestly with other men, with a structure that keeps it purposeful.
How is confidentiality handled?
Confidentiality is paramount in all our sessions and interactions as it creates trust among members and underpins the work we do. This is something we take seriously and so do all our members so that we can foster a safe and open environment.
What’s said in the room stays in the room. Non-negotiable.
Do I need to live in South London?
No. Men travel from across London. If you can get to East Dulwich, you’re welcome.
What commitment is expected?
We offer a free taster session and there is no ongoing commitment to participate afterwards. Most men come back — but that’s your call.
Although in our experience, a taster session is enough for a man to realise the value of being in community and connection with other men which is why we regularly see men coming back.
If it's not for you, then you'll know. No commitment, no awkward follow-up. Come once and see.
Email: [email protected]
Tel: 07438 615005
© Richard Cuevas